The Many Faces of Poverty

Mahatma Gandhi is quoted as saying, ‘Some people are so hungry that they only see the face of God in bread’. One can witness this every day on the news from Yemen, Tigray, refugee camps in Kenya, Bangladesh, Haiti and closer to home in shelters for migrants in Western society.

Sometimes when I watch the news, I weep with the mothers who are desperately seeking food for their starving children walking hundreds of kilometers in hope.  Some stories are particularly poignant and remain with me:   a mother who set her dead baby by the side of the road, too weak to bury the body, as she struggled to get her remaining children to a camp in hope of help. Mothers who do not have the luxury of grieving the death of a child because her other children are looking to her for survival. The story of the father who had to make an unconscionable decision to leave his near dead child on the side of a road himself depleted from hunger and responsible for carrying his other children who were too weak to walk while being pursued by gruella warfare. Doctors at camps who cannot hold out hope for pleading mothers because they no longer have medicines or food for these extremely malnourished and starving children.

This is the chaotic world we share brought on by human activity: war, climate crisis, greed, and indifference.  However, it need not be the end of the story if we, you, and I, choose to make a difference, step out of our comfort zone and do that one thing of which we are capable and which we have been avoiding.  Listen to your heart and act now - later will be too late. 

-Sister Ann Marshall, csj

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Remember your local Food Bank this season.

An Exemplary Physician

Dr. Laura Lyons is one of our physicians from St. Joseph’s Family Medical Centre in London who attends to the medical needs of our Sisters in residence. She is knowledgeable, kind, caring, and compassionate.  With a smile, our century-old Sister gives Dr. Laura the ultimate compliment, explaining,

“She listens”. 

Recently, I was given further insight into Dr. Lyons’ expertise when I opened the fall 2022 edition of “My St. Joseph’s”, a magazine published several times a year by St. Joseph’s Health Care London. In the lead article titled, “Exemplary Physician, Compassionate Cheerleader”, Dr. Laura Lyons is featured for her fine skill, “filling a great need as an expert in the care of pregnant women who are struggling with addiction”.  Citing the case of an expectant young woman with opioid addiction, the article follows our doctor’s compassionate, professional care for the woman through pregnancy and childbirth.  The continuum of care and trust given by Dr. Lyons assists the woman to leave addiction and, in this case, become a loving mother and business owner.

Indeed, Dr. Lyons is doing exemplary work in her busy practice. We are honored to have her use these same uplifting skills as she ministers with attentive presence to our Sisters needing her medical assistance.

To read the entire article: https://www.sjhc.london.on.ca/news-and-media/our-stories/laura-lyons-exemplary-physician

-Sister Jean Moylan, csj

World Kindness Day

World Kindness Day was initiated in 1998 to promote kindness throughout the world. It began in response to the increasing violence in the world as a way for participants to make the world a better place by celebrating and promoting good deeds and pledging acts of kindness for the days ahead. It continues to be celebrated in many countries including Canada, Japan, Australia, and the USA to name a few. Many schools take the opportunity to engage students of various ages in learning about kindness, compassion, and empathy in their curriculum. The theme for 2022 is Be Kind Whenever YOU can.

As spiritual people we have always been encouraged to be kind long before 1998 and not just for one symbolic day per year.

For the Islamic people displaying acts of kindness is a fundamental aspect of their religion. Islam encourages kindness, compassion towards everyone no matter what colour, status or religion they follow.

For Christians we are reminded that by our works we shall be known. We should treat others as we want them to treat us. We are to be lovers of all creation and so love is patient and kind, is not arrogant or rude. Love rejoices in the truth.

So, what is kindness? Well, it’s not difficult but it is a consistent choice. It is a type of behaviour marked by acts of generosity, consideration, helping without expecting praise or compensation in return. You know this in the core of your being!! It’s the little things you do choose to do every day, without thinking wave to your neighbour, smile at a stranger, pet a dog, call a friend, wear cheery colours, send a card, drive a friend, take muffins to a shut in. We’ve got this! The challenge is for us to make kindness as contagious as covid but way more fun.

Keep up the KINDness every moment, it’s good for your health!

Maureen Condon, Associate of the Sisters of St. Joseph

Greater Love Hath No Man Than This

“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” - John 15:13

Most families have stories to tell about the Second World War or others that have followed since, whether it be about battles fought and won, the pride of country or way of life that led men and women to sign up and join the fight against the ‘foe’.  Less talked about are ones of soldiers who returned but remained devastated by trauma and closed off emotional responsiveness. Yet the story that causes me to observe a Moment of Silence every November 11th is of a less universal nature … or perhaps we simply come to understand universal truths by way of our own experience. 

Uncle Dave, 36 years old when he signed up in 1942 and already a married man of ten years, was trained initially as a cook and mechanic. He ended up in the Calgary Highlanders on the front lines of northern France after the D-Day invasion. In the meantime, the love of his life, Flo, who had been unable to have children, went from the West to visit Dave’s family in Hamilton, Ontario.  While there, she decided to seek medical assistance for her fertility issues so they might have a family upon Dave’s return. Tragically, she developed sepsis following the required surgery and did not survive.

Dave was killed on the battlefield three months later.  The family learned that a few of his fellow soldiers had gone off to a tavern in town and returned to the trenches inebriated and very loud and disorderly. Afraid that the noise would attract the attention of the ‘enemy’ and have them all killed, Dave jumped out, grabbed them and pushed them into the trenches. They survived; tragically, he did not. Dave is interred in the Calais Canadian War Cemetery near St. Inglevert, France. My Grandmother requested that the John 15:13 verse appear on the gravestone. 

Did heartbroken Uncle Dave no longer care about surviving once he knew his wife had gone? Had life lost its meaning? Or was his selfless act to save another an expression of his inner understanding that we are here to care for each other, to reach out whatever the personal cost and offer ourselves in service to the ‘neighbour’. That no matter the circumstance, we are here to bring about peace and love? We will never know what Dave thought, but his life and death assault me each Remembrance Day and demand that I engage in deep introspection about my life and capacity to serve in selfless and loving action.

-Susan Hendricks, Associate | Peterborough Neighbourhood