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PLAY – I Dare You!

“Where there is play, there is infinite possibilities.” A number of commercials are really pushing the idea of “play” trying to release us into the outdoors and away from our electric gadgets. These commercials bring us back to the golden years of our childhood (at least those of us who are seventy and more). 

Remember skipping, double Dutch, marbles, street hockey (when cars didn’t drive fast and were willing to move over), baseball games (including kids and parents), hide and seek, especially after the street lights came on. Coaches were parents sitting on the porch, hollering encouragement and refereeing.

Unfortunately much of our time has been taken over by gadgets that serve to exercise only our fingers. Chores use to be decided by rock, paper, scissors, not by lists on the computer. You didn’t need watches because when the street lights came on, it was time to come in and play a game of cards or checkers, with the radio playing (“The Shadow Knows” or “The Green Hornet”) in the background.

Summer is running away from us. Outdoor play is not just for children.  How can we play outdoors (running bases is kind of out)? Walking, sitting on the porch and playing “I spy”, maybe use a two wheel bike.  Even sit out in the fresh air chatting with some friends. Let’s exercise the infinite possibility of play. Don’t let the rapid movement of summer rob you of playtime.

If we turn the ‘L’ in play to an ‘R’, it becomes pray. Pray also has possibilities. Let’s combine the two activities pray and play! Won’t God be pleasantly surprised!

Sr. Barbara Vaughan

A New Learning Curve

I couldn’t imagine how God would turn my life upside down – again.  Following several years of intense ministry which came to an end a couple of years ago, I listened in silence to see where the Spirit might be pointing my energies as I approached my seventies. Could I be tutoring young people? Might I volunteer at our hospitality centre? Should I again work with homeless women? Over time, the still small voice in my soul urged, “Be with your sisters; be with your friends experiencing dementia”.

My reply to the Spirit’s urging sent me to a new location among our sisters who model for me every day how to age and accept infirmity graciously as each stage of diminishment unfolds. Being with women struggling with dementia has plunged me headlong into a learning curve that is hollowing me out of my preconceived ideas of ageing, demanding me to grow in patience and causing me to live with many conflicting emotions.

We are blessed to live next door to the Alzheimer Society with their vast knowledge of dementia and related diseases. What joy I find in being part of their intergenerational choir where spirits soar as secondary school students, those living with Alzheimer disease and their caregivers sing their hearts out in our beautiful, acoustically marvelous chapel. Summer sing-along opportunities bring more gatherings and comradery. Seeing the nobility with which Alzheimer

patients bear their increasing memory loss and dependence on others is inspiring.  Witnessing the heroic efforts of spouses and partners to stay the course with their loved ones as long as possible brings me to tears. In addition, the generosity of the Alzheimer Society in offering free courses has enhanced my learning while the assistance of specialized mentors has given me new skills.

Although one might think that life among the aged is fraught with isolation, be assured that for me it is not. Each time our front door opens, the world enters with people from all walks of life who come to share the peace and tranquility that is the fruit of sisters who have spent their lives in the joy of the Gospel and service to the dear neighbor. Each night as I compose myself in silence, the still small voice in my heart reassures me, “Breathe and be here”.

Jean Moylan CSJ

Good Government/Impartial Justice

Canada’s founding principles are Peace, Order, and Good Government. These principles dictate that the administration of justice is not biased by political views, personal ambitions, or vested interests of individuals, corporations, or governments. The selection of judges then must be made through a process that includes:

 

  • independence from political  influence,
  • careful scrutiny by qualified persons,
  • balanced representation of civic, prosecutorial, and criminal defense branches of law.

A lengthy article by Sean Fine in the July 28 issue of The Globe and Mail examines the way in which the Conservative Government has “passed dozens of crime laws that reduced judges’ power to decide on a sentence”, and “has engaged in an effort unprecedented since 1982 when the Charter of Rights and Freedoms took effect: to appoint judges most likely to accept that loss of discretion”.  Mr. Fine’s article notes that the Conservative government has named about 600 of the 840 judges on provincial superior courts, appeal courts, the Federal Court, and Tax court. Critics have raised questions about the neutrality and fairness in the selection of judges because of the close association of judges and politicians in appointments. Categories of nominees are no longer balanced since prosecutors and business attorneys have been favoured while criminal defense lawyers have been left aside., Mr. Fine notes in his article that Mr. Harper has been a critic of the Charter of Rights and Freedoms and that early in his role of Prime Minister that “he wanted to choose judges who would support his crackdown on crime.”

In this blog I have simply quoted excerpts from the complete article by Sean Fine which can be accessed on line Stephen Harper’s Courts. This well researched article is food for thought as we consider what kind of country we want Canada to be, how we vote in October and how, as responsible citizens, we respond to actions of Government or proposed laws debated in Parliament. 

Pat McKeon CSJ

Plus One

August 9, 2015 at 4:00 p.m. Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada numbered 263 Sisters plus 2 novices.  At 4:30 p.m. we added 1 more, Mary Anne Larocque, with her reception into the community!

It has been nearly 25 years since the Sisters in London have celebrated the reception of a new member.

So you can imagine anticipation was very high as members of the four neighbourhoods gathered as one in the Chapel. Throughout the celebration, Mary Anne as well as each of us were invited to once again recall the purpose and meaning of our lives, to accept the invitation “Will you follow me? If I but call your name?”

I think when Sister Veronica O’Reilly (congregational leader) questioned Mary Anne about her intention, we each found ourselves answering and renewing our own intent. “Your generous response encourages us to renew our own commitment to strive for unity and reconciliation.”

The readings proclaimed by Mary Anne’s brother Peter, Sr. Anne Marshall (Hamilton) and Sr. Jean Perry (Peterbourgh) were gripping and deeply motivating.  Especially challenging was the reading from the address of Pope Francis to Religious 2014.  To quote in part “Evangelical radicalness is not only for religious: it is demanded of all.  But religious follow the Lord in a special prophetic way.  It is this witness that I expect of you.  Religious should be women and men who are able to wake up the world.” Who couldn’t be grabbed by that “able to wake up the world.”

I think the majority of us think we are off the hook, perhaps to cruise through these later years – but no – the dare is there, we can wake up the world (maybe not as far reaching as in younger years) but our local world calls us to wake up, shake them up, and give them a stir.

To think that one woman answering the invitation to follow Christ can reenergize each of us and together we are a force for good to be reckoned with. Thanks Sister Mary Anne!

In the words of the closing blessing based on St. Teresa of Avila will ring in our hearts for days and years to come.

“May today there be peace within. 
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be. 
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into your bones and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
We ask this in the name of the Trinity. Amen”.

Being true Sisters of St. Joseph that we are, the celebration including Mary Anne’s family and friends moved to the dining room where folks mixed and mingled.  We were the vision of one community! Thank you Sister Mary Anne csj!

 

Barbara Vaughan CSJ

Declaration of War

I was inspired by a little line in Eckhart Tolle's book entitled, A New Earth. Tolle said, "Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists." It holds true when you think of all the declarations of war that have strengthened the enemies; the war on drugs, on poverty, on terrorism, on racism, on crime, on tobacco. . . . These declarations of war all seem to have strengthened the enemy.
 
A close relative has been considering giving up smoking for many years. Recently, I noticed that she isn't lighting up a cigarette every time she gets out of the car, or before she gets back into her car and so I asked, "Have you stopped smoking?" Her answer surprised me, "I haven't smoked for a while but I can't say that I've given it up."
 
So, I'm thinking that she hasn't declared war on smoking and so, in her mind, if she feels like
smoking, she'll buy cigarettes again and smoke.  She certainly doesn't give the impression that
she's fighting a battle that can only be won or lost; rather, she's taken charge of her life so that
she can be healthy for her family members suffering with Huntington's disease.
 
Sister Elaine Cole, CSJ