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Call the Midwife

Many people have been taken with the British series, Call the Midwife, which chronicles the experience of a group of Anglican nuns and their protégées in the poorest quarters of London during the 1950’s. Their special gift was to help bring new life into the world with large doses of compassion and savvy that made them realise the causes of poverty.

There is another kind of midwifery that I see every time I volunteer at St. Joseph’s Hospice. As a midwife was called to help usher in life, at Hospice, the staff and volunteers act as midwives as people transition toward death. In our culture, death is often surrounded with fear and the “that about which one does not talk” syndrome. By the very fact that someone has come to hospice, the facts are on the table. Pretence has been replaced by death as a given. That “given” which we all know theoretically, has become stark reality for residents and families at Hospice. Ushered right into the room along with the resident is the possibility of open conversation and a chance for expression of feeling, of hopes, of fears, of curiosity.

Recently during a video, Katherine Dowling Singh who wrote The Grace in Dying, suggested that death is not always pretty but it has the capacity to be beautiful. My experience would bear that out as I am with staff, volunteers, family and residents. Not always pretty. But beauty is another question. The simple beauty of facing truth, of saying things we want to say, of struggling to come to terms with the loss of a future with loved ones, the sadness of relationships gone sideways.

Midwives needed. Indeed, Call the Midwife.

Margo Ritchie CSJ

Sponsoring Refugees, One Cmmittee's Experience

The Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada have been deeply involved in welcoming refugees/newcomers to our home from the beginning of our time in Hamilton even before Hamilton was a diocese.

This is a 21st Century story of a committee’s experience. In 2014 the Sisters in Hamilton registered with the United Nations Resettlement Program to welcome a refugee family.

Our first guest, a young woman from Eritrea, arrived 11 months ago after many lengthy twists and turns. Arafat travelled alone with no connection to Canada. I can’t imagine her anxiety during the time she adjusted to a totally strange culture: food, climate, living conditions, language, currency, transportation, clothing etc.  Today she is a beautiful, confident woman speaking the language fairly well and preparing for her first job.

It wasn’t always that way. Arafat is Muslim, and initially was guarded with us, trying not to show how frightened she was. It first openly surfaced when she moved into an apartment on the 17th floor. The elevator ride was frightening because of who might be on the elevator with her. She had an extra lock put on her apartment door, and kept to herself even when other Muslim women tried to reach out to her. She only reveals her tortuous journey to Canada a little at a time.

Our committee was enthusiastic and willing, however, many were not comfortable because they couldn’t communicate with Arafat and shied away initially from one on one contact. Gradually there was a change when a retired teacher reached out to Arafat after ESL classes to tutor her, and a strong bond of friendship and trust developed.

We all learned from watching their mutual friendship grow.

Our second family arrived March 30. Mom was born in Myanmar – Burma - and the sons in Thailand. They are Buddhists. The family learned some English in the school camp so communication was much easier. Committee members were more self-confident. We divided the tasks according to interest and skills. Everyone assumed responsibility enthusiastically for a specific area: driving, health, education, banking and currency education, budgeting, clothing, furniture, public transportation, recreation. The gratitude of our families is both humbling, and heartwarming and cemented bonds of friendships for the future.

Lessons learned? Yes. Don’t assume the family will arrive on time, that plans will go smoothly, or that bed bugs will not be part of the arrival party. Just the same the second time round is less stressful more fun and gives us the incentive to go for a third family sometime in the future.  

Ann Marshall CSJ

 

 

Valuing the Treasures of the Past

Have you ever found hidden treasure? We have -- and it happened like this.

In early May, our archivist and I attended the annual alumni reunion of the registered nurses who graduated from the Sisters of St. Joseph School of Nursing in Chatham, Ontario which operated from 1901-1970. A feature of the luncheon was a large display of photos and artifacts from the years during which the school operated. This display attracted many of the 200 alumni who crowded around the photos to reminisce in joy and memories recalled.  There were pictures of prim 1901 graduates looking serious in stiff white uniforms, proud grads of the 1940s in ankle length skirts, to rose-carrying young women of the 1970s.

These treasures were discovered several years ago following the amalgamation of St. Joseph’s Hospital with the Public General Hospital.  During the move, an astute nurse at work spied the treasures in a pile – no doubt headed to the garbage.  Sadly, no one thought of the value of these precious photos and the historic meaning they held for the Sisters, the hospital and for Canadian education and culture.

The swift actions of the nurse rescued the memorabilia and she stored it in her garage for several years. Our archivist’s presentation from the previous alumni gathering prompted her to unpack the treasures and share them this year with those who had lived and worked in those hallowed halls of healing.

At the end of the celebration, the findings were packed carefully and repatriated to the Sisters of St. Joseph where they are being accessioned meticulously into our archives. At last our treasures are safely home thanks to the quick thinking of an amazing woman who followed the prompting of her heart.

Jean Moylan, CSJ

Photo: Class of 1918 – St. Joseph’s School of Nursing, Chatham, Ontario
Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada Archives

 

Empty seats in lifeboats

April 15th was the 104th anniversary of the sinking of the RMS Titanic.  That day in 1912, some 1,514 people perished in the frigid waters of the Atlantic. That is tragedy enough but 468 of those 1,514 people drowned entirely needlessly. There were exactly 468 empty seats in the lifeboats launched from the Titanic.

Perhaps it is not so easy to count the avoidable deaths in today’s refugee crisis. But a clear analogy can be drawn. The wealthy States of 2016 represent a lifeboat for the forcibly displaced. How many lives are lost every day, as a result of States’ failure to respond adequately to the current refugee crisis? Many States have the capacity, but lack the leadership to accept and protect more refugees, leaving empty seats in the lifeboats. The developing world shoulders a disproportionate share of the responsibility to protect refugees. Wealthier states can and must do more.

Canada has been rightly commended for resettling 25,000 Syrian refugees between November 2015 and March 2016. This is an important accomplishment that will make a tremendous difference in the lives of these 25,000 new permanent residents of Canada. It will also enrich the lives of the thousands of Canadians who are contributing to the resettlement effort. 

The United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) has called Canada’s contribution “extraordinary,” and it is. Not because of its magnitude in the global context: the UNHCR has estimated that in the current crisis, over 1,150,000 vulnerable refugees require resettlement. Canada has helped only 2% of those in urgent need right now. Neither is Canada’s resettlement effort extraordinary because of its magnitude at home: Canada hosts only about 4 refugees per 1,000 population. Compare this to the contribution of Lebanon, which hosts over 200 refugees per 1,000 population. In Lebanon, one in every four or five people is a refugee! 

Our contribution is extraordinary because even as Canada sails to the rescue of these few, many States are rowing in the opposite direction. Although the United States of America historically has resettled about 85,000 refugees each year, the hurtful rhetoric currently being used in the presidential primaries prompts the question: how long will that policy last? Thus, the leadership of Canada is quite timely and patently necessary.

Amnesty International has proposed a 2016 Human Rights Agenda for Canada, outlining several policy recommendations to protect the rights of refugees and migrants.  Amnesty is also collaborating on the Refugees Welcome Here! Campaign with the Canadian Council for Refugees.  Here are three ways that the campaign partners assert Canada can continue -- and expand -- its leadership on refugee protection:

  • Reunite refugee families;
  • Recognize refugees, respecting non-discrimination principles; and
  • Resettle more refugees.

●  Reunite refugee families

Canada should introduce Express Entry family reunification for refugee families so that children are reunited with their parents in 6 months or less. The current waiting time for these children is staggering: 3 years.  Furthermore, Canada does not expedite processing of family members, even when children are living in a country at war. 

Arash is just six years old. He has been waiting over 2 years in Afghanistan to reunite with his parents, who were recognized as refugees in Canada in 2013.

●  Recognize refugees, respecting non-discrimination principles

Canada should eliminate the Designated Countries of Origin (DCO) regime in its refugee determination system. Refugee claimants from DCOs must counter a presumption that their country is “safe.” Their process has shortened timelines that do not afford claimants a fair and reasonable opportunity to prove their claim. This discriminatory treatment particularly affects Roma, women fleeing gender-based persecution and LGBT refugees. 

In July 2015, the Federal Court of Canada ruled that the DCO regime violated the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms because it discriminated against refugee claimants on the basis of national origin. Yet aspects of the regime remain in place. 

●  Resettle more refugees 

Canada should open the door to refugees from around the world by sustaining the increased resettlement numbers and resolving the restrictions and delays that have been undermining private sponsorship.  Canada can and should commit to resettling 20,000 Government-Assisted Refugees each year.  Moreover, Canada should improve the very slow processing times for private sponsorship:

  • The average processing time is 51 months.
  • Processing times are truly glacial in parts of Africa, reaching nearly 70 months in Nairobi, Kenya.

he eyes of the world are on Canada, with its unique measures supporting refugee protection.  There is a role, both for government and for individuals to continue this leadership.  Will you make a personal commitment to be a part of refugee protection in Canada?  Please take the Refugees Welcome Here! Pledge.  The greater the number of pledges taken, the stronger our evidence of Canadians' support for refugee protection and the greater the likelihood we can effect positive changes in Canada’s refugee policy.  Together, Canadians and our government must do our part to ensure that there are no more empty seats in lifeboats.

Used with Permission

Guest Blogger: This article was written by Christine Harrison Baird and is part of the Refugees Welcome Here! Campaign, a collaboration between the Canadian Council for Refugees, Amnistie internationale Canada and Amnesty International Canada. The pledge and a wealth of campaign materials are available at:  http://www.refugeeswelcomehere.ca/.

 

Improving Fortunes One Lucky Fish at a Time

Every now and then a creative solution comes along that is genius in its simplicity. Such an idea is the Lucky Iron Fish. This health innovation has clinically proven its ability to reduce instances of Iron deficiency and iron deficiency anemia. Worldwide 3.5 billion Individuals suffer from lack of iron which causes weakness, anemia, impaired cognitive ability, compromised physical development, risk of illness and can lead to death. The Lucky Iron Fish is just that a fish made out of recycled iron. Local cooks add it to their cooking pots when preparing meals. This simple, reusable ingredient supplies 75% of the daily, dietary requirement for iron. Its repeated use results in individuals with more energy, increased brain power and better overall health.

The iron fish was introduced in Cambodia where 6 million or 50% of the population suffer from iron deficiency. Cambodians believe the fish to be a symbol of good fortune. Watch the following YouTube to discover more about how the production of these hand held health aids are improving the fortunes of numerous individuals from manufacture to use.

"I am a strong believer that businesses have the power to solve some of the world's most daunting challenges, and the Lucky Iron Fish embodies this with our commitment to improving global health in a socially responsible way." Gavin Armstrong

 

Nancy Wales, CSJ