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Still comfortable?

While keeping watch at the bedside of a dying friend, the nurse’s question, “is she still comfortable?” rings out at intervals. Though obviously well intended, oddly, this question jars my soul. How can there be anything 'comfortable' about dying, I ask myself. Like a persistent earworm, I cannot quell the question. 'Still comfortable?' gnaws at my heart.

Caring family and friends surround this woman we love, offering each other comfort during this painful time. There it is again, ‘comfort’. It brings to mind the profound question Paula D'Arcy recently posed during her Kings College lecture, Divine Love in Challenging Times. "What if you can meet pain and find it is a doorway to the real God?"

That is the question, “what if you can?” Life is often not comfortable. We all experience heart wrenching pain and loss at some time in our lives. We all grieve. As Paula reminded us, "grief puts you into a new universe”. What sustains you and me in this new, not very comfortable universe? Do those times of darkness offer hidden treasure? They do, if we let them. When we slow down, our eyes open to look at life, to really see and pay attention to what is there. We will become aware that pain teaches us, that it is a doorway. When we step through it, we will discover that if we really know and walk with God, nothing can defeat us. We will find that divine love surrounds us in those challenging times.

Have you ever used one of those trusty Singer sewing machines? If you did, you will have vivid memories of the intricacy of threading your machine. According to Paula, threading a sewing machine is a great analogy for learning how to thread the machine of our lives. As a young child she was eager to learn how to sew a dress. One day, fabric and pattern in hand, off she went to a teacher in the hope of sewing that dress. Yes, you guessed it. The entire first lesson was devoted to learning the intricacies of threading the machine. It was not comfortable. However, that lesson many years ago proved to be a life lesson on the importance of threading the machine of life with love and compassion. If we thread it carefully with an abundance of love and compassion for ourselves and others, then when the thread on the spool of our life comes to its end, we will cross the threshold with a measure of comfort.    

So here we are, friends gathered at the bedside of a woman we cherish. She is about to cross the threshold into a new life. Over the past eighty years, she has threaded the machine of her life with great love and care. Now she is painfully stitching the last threads of her life’s tapestry. As I watch the slender oxygen tube which makes my friend’s final breaths more comfortable, I am reminded of the thread of her life so intricately interwoven with ours. All is peaceful. There is nothing to fear.

Inspired by the life my friend has lived, I recall a question the great poet Mary Oliver posed, “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” Will you thread the machine of your life with love and tenderness? When we do, on that final day, we will find comfort.  

Guest Blogger: Sr. Magdalena Vogt, cps

 



A Response to the Syrian Crisis

With the recent media coverage of the refugee crisis in Syria, our Casa Maria mission has received much attention. Ruth Hennessey, our director, has shared our expectations and given excellent interviews on T.V and radio both locally and provincially.

Our local catholic school board agreed to partner with Casa Maria for the purpose of relocating a family who has recently fled Syria. These are members of a family whom we sponsored in June 2015: Lelas, her daughter Jena and her son Karam who now reside in Toronto.

Our school board initiated Sept.18 as a teacher and student $5.00 dress down day/crazy hat day in 37 schools with the proceeds going to Casa Maria. Our Toronto refugee family visited a number of our area schools where students had an opportunity to meet, listen and question them about life and experiences.

It was amazing to hear how similar their lives were to ours, until war broke out. At the high school over 100 students listened in rapt attention to this family, intermittently interrupting with cheers and applause. The smiles on the faces of these “new comers” said it all in response to the students` show of support.

Furthermore, since then there has been much interest shown locally within the community. Casa Maria has been busy with speaking engagements and informational meetings to interested groups. Our local Bishop McGrattan, who is no stranger to the refugee cause, has encouraged parish groups within our 4 deaneries to consider working together to offer refuge. Special additional collections at the masses will be encouraged in the parishes to assist those who have taken on this challenge.

Our call for help is an awesome task, but in the work of Mother Teresa “what we do is a drop in the ocean but without it the ocean would be less.” 

Guest Blogger: Barry O’Brien, Chair of the Casa Maria Advisory Board

 

 

 

Faith and politics during a federal election campaign

Just think about it: a federal election is a privileged time to live out your faith!

Members of the ecumenical group Citizens for Public Justice (CPJ) believe that faithful citizenship demands that we design, debate and promote policies and practices which reflect God’s call for love, justice and the flourishing of Creation. After all, Christian values are not only meant to inform how we live our private lives – they must also be reflected in how we act in our communities.

And promoting democracy entails more than a quick trip to the polls, just as much as living one’s faith includes more than one hour of Sunday observance. Make no mistake about it – there is a link between being a person of faith and getting involved in political activities, all year round!

Election periods can offer enhanced opportunities to reflect on the values we want to see expressed by our government leaders, to engage in respectful dialogue with our neighbours on important issues, to evaluate the commitments of prospective office-holders and to hold them to their promises.

The real question becomes not “if” people of faith should get involved in elections, but “how” best to do so.

CPJ has prepared an Election Bulletin designed to assist us to answer this question. You can access this resource at http://cpj.ca/election2015 There are three main issues that CPJ is mandated to work on throughout the year: poverty in Canada, ecological justice (especially climate change) and refugee rights. Each section of the bulletin explains what guidance faith-based values offer on these issues, and presents three or four questions that we might ask of candidates for election. Many CPJ members make sure that a couple of copies of this resource are placed in a handy spot near their door – quickly available if a candidate comes knocking! Some congregations are holding study sessions with the guide.

The fourth issue CPJ addresses might be the most important theme: democracy. While we all have certain political views, people of faith should be able to disagree gracefully, and be able to listen to and learn from others. Now wouldn’t THAT be a useful lesson for Canadian politicians!

Guest Blogger: Joe Gunn

Joe has served for 7 years as Executive Director at Citizens for Public Justice, www.cpj.ca , a member-driven, faith-based public policy organization in Ottawa focused on ecological justice, refugee rights and poverty elimination. Previously, he was Director of the Office of Social Affairs for the Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops in Ottawa.

A Dene-Flavoured Catholicism

This past summer, I was blessed to spend half of my July in Fond du Lac, a native reserve in the remote north of Saskatchewan. For the past five years, Fr. Michael Béchard and Dr. Laura Béres have been bringing 5 social work students and 5 religious studies students to this community’s annual pilgrimage to Pine Channel, an island which is about a 45min boat-ride away from Fond du Lac.

This year marked the 25th Anniversary of the Pine Channel pilgrimage. It was instituted by Bishop Croteau in 1990 for the sake of spiritual healing and growth for the people in the surrounding native reserves and communities. He accomplished this by designing a pilgrimage that includes camping, hunting, and fishing so that the people could re-embrace their traditional ways, but also included mass every evening, as well as the Stations of the Cross, praying the rosary, and a procession of Our Lady around the entire island. It was easy to see that Pine Channel is a highlight for many in Fond du Lac and in neighbouring communities.

Being a Catholic Studies student who has gotten bit by the travel bug long ago, I really enjoy experiencing Catholicism in various countries and cultures. I find that the faith takes on a different “flavour” as you hop from culture to culture; the doctrine remains constant, the mass remains the mass, but the way in which it is expressed is influenced strongly by cultural values. For instance, consider the solemnity and order of the Roman Rite; the rich smells, sounds, and iconography of the Eastern Rite; the vitality, joy, and colour of the Church in many African countries. This past summer, I was finally able to enjoy a small taste of Catholicism according to the Dene people, and this is what I found:

In the Dene world, the Church becomes a great teller of stories. The Dene culture has great reverence for storytelling. It is the way that truth and values are passed on to generation after generation, and it is also how they communicate with one another. For example, I encountered a middle aged woman in Fond du Lac. We hadn’t exchanged pleasantries or introductions of any sort, but she sat beside me and said, “Tell me a story”. My poor mind was taken by such surprise! It clumsily searched through my memories trying to come up with a story worthy to share. The Church and its ministers embraced the storytelling style of communication much better than I did. I found that many of the Bishops’ and priest’s homilies focused on the story of the Israelite people, the story of Jesus in the Gospel, or even their own personal stories. The preaching had little mention of Church history or theology, but was rich in story.

The way that the Dene people embrace story and myth was very refreshing to me, especially as one coming from a culture of fact and literalism. There was one point in the trip when a group of us were having a discussion about creation myths. We were wondering whether there was any conflict between the traditional Dene creation myth and the accounts in Genesis 1 and 2. When Fr. Michael asked this to a Fond du Lac local, Adolphus, he replied, “We believe both”. To many of those who assume a literal interpretation of Scripture, this would seem blasphemous. How can one believe that God made the earth in 7 days while also holding true that is was a raven who created the land all from a handful of mud from one brave beaver? Well, the Dene people understand that myths are stories of truth – not factual truths, but deep truths of the world. They do not believe that the world was actually made by a beaver and a raven, but they hold onto the message of the story: that sacrificial love gives life to many. When we say that both myths are ‘true’, we are saying that both are conveying truths about values, the world, and humanity. I did not hear a single person try and assert a literal interpretation of Genesis 1 and 2, since the Church in the north is a great teller of stories, and as such, she understands the true nature of myth.

Another fundamental value Dene culture is the importance of family and ancestors. We had the opportunity to visit the homes of a few families in Fond du Lac, and it was nearly impossible to guess the colours of their walls, for every inch of wall space was covered with photographs of family members, living and deceased. Family is of utter importance; aunts, uncles, cousins, parents, grandparents, siblings… all of them. It wasn’t uncommon for parents to be telephoning their relatives asking, “Is little Johnny sleeping at grandma’s tonight? He was eating dinner at Aunt Sally’s and was hanging out at Uncle Joe’s earlier, but I’m not sure where he is now…”. Extended family is held in just as much importance as immediate family. Bloodlines run deep in Dene culture. How was this cultural value manifested through their Catholic faith? Through their intercessory prayer. There is a tradition at Pine Channel where the people read aloud their own individual mass intentions before mass. There were so many intentions (it took nearly 20 minutes to read them aloud!), and I noticed that nearly all of them were offered for their living and deceased family members, as well as the souls in purgatory. The Catholic practice of praying for the dead was practiced more than I’d ever seen it before, and I suspect that the depth of the Dene family ties were at the root of this.

There is so much to say regarding the merging of Dene culture and the Catholic faith, but I will speak of only one more connection: the deep respect of the beauty and dignity of creation. It goes without saying that the native people have a very special relationship with the land. This love of the land is very compatible with Catholic belief that proclaims the dignity of creation, and the beauty of God made manifest in nature. If you need convincing, just read Pope Francis’ newest encyclical, Laudate Si’! The Holy Father speaks of the Earth as mother and considers all of creation connected through our common origin: God, who has fathered us all. A couple of ways that I noticed the Church in the north connect with the Dene people was by their referring to God as “the Creator”, or by having an open-concept Church which overlooks the forest and the river.

Travelling to the north was an incredibly valuable experience. I absolutely love that our Church lives up to the ‘catholicity’ of its name. No matter who you are or what corner of the world you come from, the Catholic Church proclaims a message of redemption and love that truly is universal.

Guest Blogger: Rianne Rops
Rianne is a student at King's University College. She is entering into her third year of 'Catholic Studies for Teachers' and hopes to return to the north and maybe teach there one day.

 

Taking a Stand for Justice

Seetha, a rural poor and illiterate woman standing up for widows rights

Allow me to introduce Seetha Mahalakshmi: her name might not be familiar but what she represents is priceless – social justice for widows in India. Seetha is part of a network of 200 000 women in rural south-east India supported by SOPAR (www.sopar-balavikasa.org/ - a Canadian international development organization helped by many generous Canadian donors including the Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada.

The misery of Seetha’s daughter and millions of other widows in India - Seetha’s daughter was treated as a bad omen the day she became a widow. Considered to be the cause of her husband’s death, villagers wished to exclude her of all religious and community gatherings. Villagers who would see her face first thing in the morning said it would bring bad luck upon them for the day. People were trying to persuade her not to wear good clothes or jewellery like other women. Many widows, like Seetha’s daughter, feel totally excluded and either commit suicide or seriously think about it. 

Derogatory beliefs, superstitions and taboos around widows persist in rural Indian communities. A change in attitude is essential in order to bring about change.  

Seetha takes the floor:

“The awareness sessions made me realize that we treat widows unfairly. When my daughter became a widow at the age of 22, I refused that she be excluded. She came to live with us and I told all my neighbours that we did not care about their superstitious beliefs and that my daughter would continue her life like other women. I encouraged her to remarry in spite of resistance from villagers in my community. Six months ago, I became a widow. I will not let people put me aside and impose their way of thinking on me. I have become a strong woman and will continue to be even though my husband has passed away and I will encourage other widows to be strong as well”.

SOPAR is bringing attitude change in the society regarding widows- SOPAR’s sister organization in India named Bala Vikasa, is acting as a leader to address the many injustices faced by Indian widows. Bala Vikasa developed its Justice for Widows Program in 2006 in order to alleviate widows’ suffering and social exclusion. The program strengthens widows’ capacities and leadership so that they regain dignity confidence and autonomy. It creates opportunity so that they can meet their own needs and those of their children. It also brings awareness to the whole society on superstitious beliefs related to widows.

70000+ women like Seetha have participated in SOPAR’s awareness sessions to stop superstitious beliefs related to widows and 10 000 are part of the Widows Program.  The actions of these women are creating ripple effects in rural Indian communities. People are starting to question traditional beliefs and to fight for justice for widows.

This year on International Widows day - June 23 – Seetha along with 1000 widows joined in a rally organized by Bala Vikasa in the main streets of Warangal (southern India) standing together for widows’ rights and for a better world.  

Guest Blogger: Janice Aubry, Program Officer