Reflections

Celebrating 100 Years in Pembroke

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Written by Mary McGuire, csj Published in the Eganville Leader in February, 2021

During the next 11 months, we will continue to share the amazing story of the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada/Pembroke Site as we celebrate 100 years of our service and witness in the Diocese of Pembroke and beyond. As we tell our story we would like to express our gratitude, love, and prayers to so many of you who have been with us on this journey. Our Congregation is witness to the love and support you have bestowed on our community and we will be forever grateful for these gifts. We would like to say a heartfelt thank you and invite you to read our story in the months ahead as a way of celebrating this important milestone with us.

We hope you enjoyed reading the January story about the humble beginnings of the Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada/Pembroke Site. As we continue to share this grace-filled story, you will be inspired by God’s abundant love that he bestowed on our Congregation. In this second article, our story continues with the building of a new Motherhouse on the property known as St. Joseph’s-on-the-Lake.

After our initial move to the property, it became clear that a new building was needed to house our growing community and it was to become a home to many Sisters.

On September 15th, 1952 a ceremony of the ‘Turning of the Sod’ for a new Motherhouse was carried out by Bishop Smith who succeeded our initial benefactor, Bishop Ryan, in the Diocese of Pembroke.

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The main and first section of our Motherhouse was built only a few hundred feet from the original farmhouse and was completed in 1954. One Sister recalls loading wheelbarrows with furniture and pushing them across the field. Mattresses were a problem as they often fell to the ground. A watchful eye would catch them and say, ‘Don’t ruin the mattresses. That’s all we have’.

This first expansion included the building of our Chapel, which was the heart of our home and was blessed by Bishop Smith on December 12th, 1954 during a Mass of Thanksgiving. Many Sisters, priests, and neighbours gathered to celebrate. Following the Mass everyone was invited to lunch in our dining room where the celebration continued.

The Spirit of God was ever-present, guiding us in forming a community of genuine, caring women and the loving support was palpable. We felt the oneness of being a vital part of something much bigger than ourselves. Our journey to fulfilling our mission was just beginning.

Over the years our Chapel was offered to the public for Eucharistic celebrations and times of quiet prayer. We had the honour of hosting many sacred events including a wedding, a baptism, and some wakes (or funerals) of lay people who had requested this. We also held the wakes and funeral masses of our own sisters in the Chapel.

Throughout the years there was continual progress toward the completion of the Chapel and the facility’s furnishings. The many donations included the beautiful Stations of the Cross which were a gift from Father Dowdall and a new Chapel organ was donated by the Catholic Women’s League of Eganville. A statue of St. Joseph was a gift from Father T.J. Hunt and was erected on the lawn in front of the Motherhouse. The plaque at the base of the statue was donated by the Berrigan family. We are very pleased that the St. Joseph statue has found a new home at St. Joseph’s High School in Renfrew.

In 1962, an administrative section, known as the East Wing, was added to the main building. This contained a board room, offices, approximately fifty bedrooms, and a spacious auditorium. This addition meant we had more space to accommodate more Sisters as well as host important meetings and events and offer our facility to other community organizations when needed.

In 1967, the West Wing was built to accommodate those aging Sisters who were suffering from ill-health after their years of hard work and dedication to their missions and professions. These special accommodations and facilities included a welcoming and comfortable infirmary, designed and furnished with attention and skill, and provided ideal quarters for those requiring nursing care. As our health care facility grew we were able to take in priests and laypeople who needed this type of assistance. We had 24-hour nursing care and a Doctor who visited weekly.

This health care facility was of great use to Marianhill at one time. For a short period in 2009, during a transition for some hospital patients to transfer to the new Carefor facility on MacKay Street in Pembroke, we offered our home to 12 infirm patients on our second-floor health care unit.

A full-size therapy pool was also part of this west wing addition. Over the years the Sisters made the pool accessible to the local community who needed this type of therapy for healing. One of our Associates, Anita McGean, volunteered to oversee and schedule appointments to swim in the pool on a weekly basis. A referral from a Doctor was required and it was recognized as a way to give back to our supportive community. It was such an important part of our ministry and was so appreciated. The use of the pool was offered free to those who would use it and there were many gestures of appreciation. One man, after a serious accident, said, “This therapy pool saved my life and allowed me to walk again.”

Although these expansions provided a warm and welcoming home to the Sisters we were always aware that the land and its original purpose as a farm shaped our culture as a Congregation. Farmers are very dependent on the weather (God’s Providence) and dependent upon each other as neighbours. Those traits inspired the hospitality and simplicity that characterizes us and our community. Our attentiveness to the needs of smaller communities, especially rural communities, has been a value of our Congregation in our apostolic outreach over the years.

From those early days of our journey, a debt of gratitude is owed. The Peterborough Congregation sent 27 of their Sisters who volunteered to join the Pembroke Congregation early in our existence. This was a pure gift to our community and would not have been an easy decision to make at that time.

Priceless was the friendship of Bishop Ryan and Father Dowdall who went above and beyond their contributions of interest and precious time. Father Dowdall was unfailing as the most effective public relations promoter of our community.

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With bricks and mortar, our story supported a foundation in Pembroke to be of service to God’s people. The Sisters were open to all possibilities. Wherever there was a need, the community responded. We received so much affirmation and support. It is true when you give generously from the heart, it is returned one hundredfold. This was our experience and we are so grateful.

This story ends in thanksgiving of a very special gift that we received - one that we enjoy to this day. In 1968, through the generosity of the owners, a summer camp on the Madawaska River, not far from Combermere, was donated to the Sisters of St. Joseph. The large and completely furnished dwelling was built by Monsignor Biernacki and at his death, was inherited by a number of priests who were both American and Canadian and had, in former times, enjoyed the hospitality of Monsignor Biernacki at ‘II Nocturne’, as it was named. This four-season camp is beautifully situated on the River and was gratefully accepted by the Sisters who continue to use it throughout the year.

Stay tuned as our story unfolds in 2021!

Written by Mary McGuire, csj Published in the Eganville Leader in February, 2021

This is Us

“This is Us” is currently a popular TV series. It is also a popular LIFE series at our residence in London, Ontario, Canada where approximately 80 women - Sisters of St. Joseph, share life.

Recently, an invitation was given to anyone to be part of putting together a beautiful puzzle of a male and female cardinal.  There they were, all 500 pieces, with uniquely odd-shaped pieces waiting to be crafted into a beautiful picture as seen here.

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Beside the pieces, was the following invitation:

“When a red cardinal appears, the spiritual meaning is that it is a symbol of hope in God, especially in times of stress and despair, to encourage hope and persistence.

This puzzle, in the process of completing it, is meant to be a reminder of the importance of us living together, helping each other to put together, the pieces of our lives, as we journey through this pandemic. Some pieces will fit, some will not, but will be used when others fit into the picture.

WELCOME TO BEING A CO-CREATOR OF THE FINISHED PRODUCT!! 😊”

After about three weeks, the beautiful symbol was realized and the co-creators were asked to describe their experience of being in this very simple process and how it was similar to living in community.

These were the various responses:

-we are all interested in the same thing

-you learn about the other persons who help to put it together

- it is a small welcome recess in the day

-we support each other in various ways, as we do in community

-in working together, we experience being with somebody

-I am happy to find pieces that fit

-it is heartening to see together, the end product coming to completion

-like the odd-shaped puzzle pieces, so are we, as the diverse pieces of our life come together

-various personalities come together and we appreciate the gift of accommodating at times and leading at other times.”

-we are creating something new and enjoying doing it

-we are making connections on many levels

-it captivates one’s ability to attentively see the unfolding of something beautiful

-look at a piece, then look at the WHOLE to see where it fits

Through the lens of “puzzle-making”, we can look at this world in the political upheaval in the U.S. especially and hope that better hearts will prevail to bring about a picture of harmony and collaboration.

Looking through this same lens, we can hope that in our lives together, we can create a microcosm of a loving and compassionate entity that will spill out into a world so desperately in need of compassionate love.

Amanda Gordon, the poet laureate of the U.S. presidential Inauguration reminds us:

“For there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it.

If only we’re brave enough to be it.

If we are brave enough to put the pieces of the puzzle together, we CAN collaboratively co-create a beautiful world.  WE CAN BE THE LIGHT.

-Sister Kathleen Lichti (and several other “puzzle solvers”)

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Celebrating Vowed Life

In 1997, Pope St. John Paul II instituted “World Day of Consecrated Life” as a day of prayer for women and men in consecrated life.  This feast on February 2nd is attached to Candlemas Day, on which candles are blessed symbolizing the light of Christ to all peoples.  The Pope wanted to emphasize the gift of consecrated persons to the world and urged them to be, “true experts of communion and to practice the spirituality of communion” (Vita consecrate, n.46). 

Today, in “Laudato siPope Francis invites us to be “architects of universal brotherhood, custodians of the common home: of the earth and every creature” (cf. Encyclical “Laudato si”). He elaborates in “Fratelli Tutti,” “Be brothers and sisters towards all, regardless of faith, culture and tradition” (FT n. 100).  In other words, be ministers to the dear neighbor without distinction as our founder, Fr. Medaille directed in 1650.

Of course, the groundwork for the ability to be what is urged in papal encyclicals begins in the life of every individual religious congregation.  In a 2017 video, “Why We Love Our Vocation,” newer members were asked why they love their vocation. Their answers resonated with my own experience. For example, “It’s freedom to be in love with God and available for God’s people.” “It’s an opportunity to show a different way of being in the world.” “You pour your life into God and God pours life back into you.”  “It’s living with people who have similar values and support each other.”  An enthusiastic young seminarian declared, “Consecrated life is an adventure” and a dancing young Sister enthused, “It’s living in the joy of the Gospel.

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As for myself, reflecting on my 54 years in consecrated life, I have been blessed in every way, “standing on the shoulders of the ones who came before me.”  I am a part of the valiant women who strive to grow deeper into God every day.  Our overflow of God’s steadfast love pours into the world in service to God’s people.  Living in community can try my patience but it expands my mind and heart.  Loving support surrounds me.  If push comes to shove, I can reach out to any Sister and receive unconditional love.  If I am healthy, I’m encouraged to develop my talents in service to the dear neighbor.   If I am ill, I’m surrounded by healing care.

Father Hardy, Sister Jean, Sister Yvonne and Mary Jo at Sister Jean’s 50th Jubilee

Father Hardy, Sister Jean, Sister Yvonne and Mary Jo at Sister Jean’s 50th Jubilee

I love how we support each other in happiness and sorrow. At jubilees, we can blow off the chapel roof with joyful song and celebration. In death, we are accompanied with prayer and solemnity.

Consecrated life is an amazing global network of generous vowed women and men leaving their nets and following Christ to minister to others in the joy of the Gospel.  Be assured that in the lyrics of Earth Mama, each of us can say, “I will stand a little taller, I will work a little longer and my shoulders will be there to hold the ones who follow me.”

-Sister Jean Moylan, csj

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Sisters of St. Joseph, Community Photo, 1993

Creating a Beloved Community

Creating a Beloved Community…. It’s still our desire

“Our goal is to create a beloved community, and this will require a qualitative change in our souls as well as a quantitative change in our lives.”  -Martin Luther King

These words of Dr. King have a call that reaches to needs of our world even more urgently.  They are as true today and needed even more so, given the many tragic events unfolding in the United States and around the world.  In this blog, the story I want to shed some light on is the millions of migrants and refugees on the move seeking a more safe and secure life for themselves and their families. However, this is a story not just about the difficult and tragic circumstances of the lives of these people, but it is a story that is also about us. 

I think most of us came from somewhere else in our home country or in a new country.  According to the UN, 244 million live in a country other than where they were born; 20 million of these we call refugees and asylum seekers escaping violence or persecution and a pandemic in their home countries.  They are seeking home somewhere else, and some among and with us. We are part of this story and we contribute to how this story will evolve.

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So many of us are yearning for a better ending to many stories we see on our TV screens or in the books we are reading.  We long for stories of love rather than hate, or creativity rather than destruction, of win-win cooperation rather than a win-lose competition of peace rather than war.  I am unable to do this alone, and it must be more than a wish.  Our wish is part of the qualitative change that happens internally in our souls, but it also calls for a quantitative change in our lives.  We can all be involved. To be part of creating a “beloved community” starts with some very practical actions and one person at a time.  It is letting love lead the next chapters of this story. Part of this story is one of justice and joy, love, and peace, and we still get to win, just not at everyone else’s expense.  We can move into a reality in which we can live in harmony with one another.  Then we can be part of creating conditions in which peace and well-being are not only possible but normal, and in which inevitable conflicts can be resolved through justice, kindness, wisdom, and love.  Let’s each contribute to writing the next chapters of this story.

-Joan Atkinson, CSJ

From Generation to Generation

When something surprised my father (eg the cost of groceries) he would slap his hand to his chest over his heart, stagger back a few steps and say, “Carry me out!”

My brother decided that his 3 year old grandson River should know some of these family expressions and traditions.

Recently River was at day care and did not appreciate having to stand in line for something.  His mother- who is a teacher at the same school- observed that he slapped his little chest, staggered backwards a few steps and said, “Carry me out!”  Ah, tradition.

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We inherit so much from those that go before us both genetically and culturally and what a blessing that can be.  To remember with love things that others did before us to take care of others, to assist others, amuse others can inspire us to pass that on to those with whom we connect as well as those who come after us.  We can appreciate all that past generations have done to allow us to be who we are today.

I have always liked the song ‘Standing on the Shoulders’ by EarthMama (Joyce Johnson Rouse, 1995)

“I am standing on the shoulders of the ones who came before me

 I am honored by their passion for our liberty

I will stand a little taller, I will work a little longer

And my shoulders will be there to hold the ones who follow me.”

Such an opportunity exists for all of us to act in such a way as to be the shoulders for those who follow us.  Let us make the most of this opportunity.

-Sister Nancy Sullivan, csj