Reflections

All That A Life Can Bear

This morning, as I sit quietly looking out my window, the sky begins to paint itself deep pink verging on red. The colour bleeds into the expanse of the sky and within minutes, the magic recedes again into blue-grey sky. I know that this will happen again and again for the watching.

As I look down at my iPad, news breaks of war in Iran. The United States have cemented their bond in a joint attack on Iran. The goal explicitly and somewhat confusingly expressed is regime change. People are both exhilarated in the hope of some form of liberation and terrified. They realise that to kill the Ayatollah and a few visible leaders is not the end of a violent and repressive system. The world is holding a common collective breath.

The world is holding a common collective breath.

Time to shift and get ready to see my brother who is hospitalized after a stroke leaving his right and dominant side severely compromised. We are close. I watch as he works hard and methodically to open a single serving milk carton solely using his left hand. He lifts the milk carton with the same hard-working left hand and drinks. One more mission accomplished for now.

These three events all within the opening hours of a Saturday morning in late February, 2026. They are clearly not unique to me. They are common in their own way to all of us.

These questions surface:

  • How much can the human nervous system bear?

  • How much of life can we digest in these short time frames?

  • And most importantly, how can we become safety and belonging for and with each other?

-Sister Margo Ritchie, csj

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World Day of the Sick

World Day of the Sick

World Day of the Sick will be celebrated on Wednesday, February 11, 2026.  The theme, for this day is, “The compassion of the Samaritan: loving by bearing another’s pain”. 

If you think about this parable in Luke’s Gospel (10:25+), you will recall that the Samaritan who was journeying along the road came upon the man who had fallen victim to robbers.  In the parable the Samaritan seemed bound by conscience to care for the injured man who was in his path.

When I read the passage, it seems to me that it’s not necessary to go looking for those who are sick and who I think might ‘need’ me, but rather it is necessary to notice those whom God places in my path.  This will require that I live fully conscious of those whom God places in my path.  It might also require that I at times must overcome feelings of impatience, or inadequacy, or guilt, or even disgust when approaching someone “in my path”.  It’s not always easy to smile.

I am familiar with the quotation, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”.   I am also aware that love makes sacrifice easy and perfect love makes it a joy.  Reading the words then, living the words, will be the journey of a lifetime.  Ultimately, it is God’s love that I want to bring to my neighbour.  That requires faith and it requires consenting to God’s presence and action in me.  The Saints teach us how to love.  Mother Teresa would say,

“Stay where you are.  Find your own Calcutta.  Find the sick, the suffering, and the lonely right where you are—in your own homes and in your own families, in your workplaces and in your schools.”

-Do Something Beautiful for God The Essential Teachings of Mother Teresa, p.80.

-Sister Elaine Cole, csj

Standing in More Than One Place

Standing in More Than One Place — at the same time.

In 2009, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie presented a TED talk that made the rounds in social media. It was called The Danger of a Single Story and reflected on how seeing from only one point of view or from one cultural context creates a very distorted story of the whole. Certainly, the work of the Truth and Reconciliation experience or Black Lives Matter or the Feminist movements agree with Ngozi Adichie.

There is also its opposite which might be called the Challenge of Holding More than One Story at the Same Time.

Enter 45 year old Mandy Gull-Masty who is the current Minister of Indigenous Services in Canada.

She was elected Deputy Chief of the Cree Nation of Waswanipi during which time she held portfolios in finance, housing, mining and administration.

In 2017, she was elected Deputy Grand Chief of the Cree Nation government.

By 2021, she became the first woman elected as Grand Chief of Grand Council of Cree Nation government representing Cree People in Northern Quebec. During this time she expanded protected lands, advanced a moose conservation initiative, revitalised Cree language and culture as well as promoted transparent governance and economic planning.

Naming all these positions, lets us see clearly that she is well rooted in the story of indigenous history.

In what seems like a sharp turn in the road, she is now part of the liberal caucus that is negotiating an oil pipeline. Many, though not all, indigenous leaders are opposed to such a move.

Ms. Gull-Masty, from indications so far, is a grounded, astute and very articulate leader. Is she perhaps a newer generation of leader learning how to navigate the complexity of more than one story at a time? Is she perhaps a leader who will find a path toward integrity each step of the way?

The building of a new pipeline is not a given yet. The most interesting part now are the conversations, the various points of view, the engagement that is hopefully authentic. It is simply not clear where it will all land.

I for one will be cheering for Ms. Gull-Masty in all the twists and turns yet to come.

 -Sister Margo Ritchie, csj

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GIVING TUESDAY IS HERE

Thumbs Up for Everyday Generosity

Today, with the help of my well-informed assistant, Professor Google, I discovered that Giving Tuesday is more than just a single day. It’s a movement that celebrates radical generosity. It connects people around the world who believe in the simple but powerful idea that giving, of time, kindness, or resources can transform lives.

Archbishop Desmond Tutu once said, “Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.” His wisdom captures the essence of GivingTuesday: small, consistent acts of goodness that ripple outward and create lasting change.

Tutu’s reminder calls us to start right where we are with simple, human gestures of care. As we move through our daily activities, perhaps each of us can find small ways to live that message by our sharing time, a financial donation, a kind word, or a helping hand. Keeping uppermost in mind and heart generosity doesn’t just belong to one Tuesday; it belongs to every day.

 What acts of kindness are you willing today to stitch into the fabric of life for those around you?

-Sister Nancy Wales, CSJ

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Show a Little Kindness

A good friend of mine often tests my word skills by sharing the “word of the day” from the Word Trivia website. One unfamiliar word recently added to my vocabulary is “fabulist.” If it is new to you, think of Aesop, the author of Aesop’s Fables. A fabulist is a storyteller who crafts short moral tales, often using animals with human traits to bring lessons to life.

One quote widely attributed to Aesop is, “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” While it does not come from a specific fable, it reflects the moral spirit that runs through his tales.

That sentiment resonates deeply as we mark World Kindness Day offering a gentle reminder that kindness is a universal value, transcending borders, cultures, and religions.

The intent of World Kindness Day is to encourage individuals, communities, and organizations to perform acts of kindness, big or small, creating a global, ripple effect of goodwill.

So, what small act of kindness can you do today, and every day, to help nurture a spirit of generosity, creating 365 days of kindness?

What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It's the only thing that there's just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
No, not just for some, oh, but just for every, every everyone.
What the World Needs Now, Dionne Warwick

 -Sister Nancy Wales, csj

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