Reflections

Cherish the Good

Once again, I received my inspiration for a blog contribution from a product tagline. In this case, it was one by the well known cereal company, Quaker Oats. The voice-over proudly asserts,”Cherish the good.” 

In my opinion, the tagline is an excellent and much needed reminder as we approach Thanksgiving weekend. Bombarded by a constant barrage of the television screen flashing “Breaking News”, our hearts and minds yearn for sanity breaks. To retain a sense of hope, in our chaotic world, there is a desire within us to bring balance to our lives by noticing the numerous signs of good news. We witness or experience gestures of kindness, numerous blessings of compassion, or the ongoing support of family and friendship.  To stay relatively calm these days we need to become more conscious of the sprinkles of goodness which are apparent, if only we paid heed.

As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving, let us open our eyes to see the blessings which surrounds us and cherish the good.

-Sister Nancy Wales, CSJ

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Today is a Day Like No Otter

A colleague recently gifted me a card with the delightful pun, “Today is a Day Like No Otter”.  I proudly displayed it on my office door. The otter, a graceful, joyful and light-hearted creature, became a small but meaningful symbol in my daily routine. It reflected my quiet wish that anyone who passed by my office door might catch a moment of laughter, lightness, or peace.

As professor Google tells us, otters are symbols of adaptability, simple joys, and a life lived in balance. Becoming aware of that fact, I felt only right to share my little spark of cheer. I passed the card on to a hospital receptionist, inviting her to replace her usual "Back in 5 minutes" sign when it was not applicable. When she is clearly present it offers her an opportunity  to brighten someone’s day. This was my small way of sharing a little joy with ott-ers.

So may this playful creature serve as a gentle reminder and a chance to share your joy with ott-ers ;).

“Just as the otter finds play in every wave, we should find joy in every moment.”

-Sister Nancy Wales, CSJ

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Good Neighbours

Americans are known for celebrating an almost endless list of national days, each one honoring something special. One such observance is National Good Neighbour Day on September 28th. A Canadian, you might wonder why I am mentioning this. Well, this day reminds me of the bond we Canadians share with our American neighbours just across the border.

I must admit, I am saddened by the recent strain in our relationship. As a border-city kid from Windsor, Ontario, I have always felt a natural kinship with my American neighbours - a closeness that goes beyond geography. I have lasting memories of trips to Boblo Island and the thrill of its Wild Mouse roller coaster, with its sudden quick, sharp turns and that airborne feeling. I remember the shopping day trips to Detroit, Michigan, and the quiet, inner tension built up avoiding the eyes and questions of customs officers.

Before I built a wall I’d ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offense.
Something there is that doesn’t love a wall,
That wants it down...
— Robert Frost, Mending Wall

I can’t help but feel saddened by the recent cooling of relations between our two nations. The warm feelings between Canadians and Americans have significantly chilled. National Good Neighbours Day feels like the perfect reminder that, even when politics or bigger issues create distance, the relationships between people living side-by-side can and must remain warm, respectful, and supportive.

Women's Equality Day

Women’s Equality Day is a Statutory Holiday in the United States, to celebrate the ratification of the 19th amendment for women to vote and is celebrated on August 26th of each year.

In Canada it is also significant in marking milestones like women gaining the right to vote and hold office in 1918, and the Persons Case in which the British Privy Council in 1929 ruled that women were indeed persons under Canadian law and could be appointed to the Senate. This decision overturned a previous ruling by the Supreme Court of Canada and paved the way for women's increased participation in public and political life. 

I would just invite the reader to consider a few things about the Persons Case: if indeed we agree that women are also persons, then why are they treated differently in ordinary conversation?  If we truly believe what the Persons Case is stating, and which, by the way, was hard won by 5 women from Alberta, then I think we might consider the use of language referring to women as a “teaching moment” to the upcoming generation of young leaders.   

For example, phrases used by many waitresses or waiters will most often refer to women as “you guys”, “honey”, “dearie”.  This, to me if used referring to mature young or especially elderly women, is meant in good faith, but I would suggest there is an unconscious bias to not considering women as equal to men in the realm of personhood. 

The treatment of women in our Western Culture, leaves room for improvement which WE have the power and hopefully the will, to make.

For example, for waiters/waitresses, other words more appropriately used could be: “how may I help you ladies?” OR “Are you folks ready to place your orders?”.  In my opinion, the common unconscious use of “girls” in relating to mature women is so inappropriate.

I respectfully suggest that perhaps on this August 26th, might we intentionally use appropriate respectful language that exhibits an awareness of the real dignity of womanhood?

-Sister Kathleen Lichti, CSJ

National Wildlife Day

“Some Wilderness Ramblings”
A Celebration of National Wildlife Day

As I write these few words I’m grateful to be spending some restful days in a wild place of lakes and deep forests. It is a place where the trees, fungi, plants, wildflowers and waters form a community with the animals whose home this is. All around the songbirds sing their morning praise. In the evenings, the loons cry out their haunting melodies calling out creation’s mystery. The tap, tap-tapping of woodpeckers echoes throughout the day as they create nature’s sculptures in the ancient log on the deck. The sound of tiny footsteps declare the arrival of squirrels and chipmunks seeking nourishment. Glorious, luminous dragonflies and butterflies fill the air with gentle patterns in flight. Fish, large and small dart across the water’s edge and leap from the depths of the lake toward the sunlight, shimmering in its radiance. Ants scurry busily, with great intent, like a miniature army. Sometimes, a small garter snake lazily slithers through the brush and very occasionally, I am reliably told, a black bear is sighted on its visits in the area.

This place is the place of belonging for such a vast and magnificent diversity of creatures. All are here “at home” by some “divine right” – they belong by nature. We humans, albeit an intrinsic part of the whole of creation, are in some senses, invitees of all other creatures. As, Wendell Berry, poet, writer, environmental activist and cultural critic writes, I can truly belong to this place “only by understanding and by virtue”. We humans are called into an intimacy with the natural world and we belong only in so far as we open ourselves to growing awareness and by living responsibly for the preservation of the wild that gifts us with life and beauty.  

In Canada, National Wildlife Day is celebrated on September 4. On this day we are reminded of the magnificent diversity of life in creation upon which all life depends. The specially designated day honours the legacy of Steve Irwin the conservationist and television personality known popularly as "The Crocodile Hunter".  The day serves to encourage, and for more than a day, the need to expand and deepen our awareness of the array of species around us, no matter whether we live in countryside or city, and of the vast multitude of animal communities, globally.  The day, assigned, calls us to protect endangered species. Current research demonstrates that thousands of species are at risk of extinction caused by unthinking, rapacious human intervention and concurrent environmental change and habitat loss. National Wildlife Day reminds us of the essential role played by plants and animals in maintaining ecological balance necessary for the very existence of life itself. The Day stresses the importance of wildlife conservation. It calls for individual and communal efforts to preserve and allow the flourishing of biological diversity and the beauty of the wilderness now and for future generations.

What am I called to be and to do in response? Perhaps it’s a simple yet vital first step of expanding consciousness by immersing ourselves in the world’s magnificence, simply taking a walk in nature and allowing it to touch and teach us. As wildlife biologist, Erik Reisen writes maybe it is first a matter of, “Paying attention to the things most of us ignore or simply don’t take time to notice in our daily comings and goings – to see the natural world through a magnifying glass or in a poem, is the first step toward wanting to preserve it.” On National Wildlife Day let us simply pay attention, give thanks and commit to action!

-Sister Mary Rowell, csj

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