Good Neighbours

Americans are known for celebrating an almost endless list of national days, each one honoring something special. One such observance is National Good Neighbour Day on September 28th. A Canadian, you might wonder why I am mentioning this. Well, this day reminds me of the bond we Canadians share with our American neighbours just across the border.

I must admit, I am saddened by the recent strain in our relationship. As a border-city kid from Windsor, Ontario, I have always felt a natural kinship with my American neighbours - a closeness that goes beyond geography. I have lasting memories of trips to Boblo Island and the thrill of its Wild Mouse roller coaster, with its sudden quick, sharp turns and that airborne feeling. I remember the shopping day trips to Detroit, Michigan, and the quiet, inner tension built up avoiding the eyes and questions of customs officers.

Before I built a wall I’d ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offense.
Something there is that doesn’t love a wall,
That wants it down...
— Robert Frost, Mending Wall

I can’t help but feel saddened by the recent cooling of relations between our two nations. The warm feelings between Canadians and Americans have significantly chilled. National Good Neighbours Day feels like the perfect reminder that, even when politics or bigger issues create distance, the relationships between people living side-by-side can and must remain warm, respectful, and supportive.