Father's Day

Father’s Day - A repost of Sister Jean Moylan’s Father’s Day Blog, may she rest in peace.

I look forward to Father’s Day every year.  It gives me time to think about the role of father in our lives and the influence that each father has on laying the groundwork for his children in a myriad of ways that will guide them throughout their lives.

Of course, as an example, I turn to thoughts of my own beloved father, now long deceased, and the influence he had on my life and on my siblings.  Dad and the other men who I knew as I grew up, cemented my perception and belief of what a father should be.  Later in life, I learned that not all fathers were kind and loving as were those during my childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood.  A lack of good male role models can leave its mark on children who suffer from lack of self-esteem, addictions, and a host of other maladies that may be carried through life.  

““The Lord your God carried you, as a father carries his son.””

— Deuteronomy 1:31

From my earliest years, I knew my father as a kind, gentle, and patient dad.  He loved my mother deeply and expressed it in daily acts of kindness.  He insisted that we show her love, honor, and obedience.  We also learned to respect our elders, and those who visited us in our happy, faith-filled home.

Throughout my childhood, I observed my father teaching by example.  We saw his daily cordial conduct, gentle politeness, easy neighbourliness, and the careful dance of when to act and when to desist.

As the years passed and we grew up and took our place in society, new generations arrived.  I watch my brothers in action. They treat their wives and children with the same patience, love and kindness that my father portrayed.  Suddenly, in this new millennium, another generation, tall and strong, is on the horizon.  These lads also exhibit the traits that have been handed down from the generations of our fine forefathers.

How appropriate it is to set aside one special Sunday a year to honor hardworking, fine men who bear the name of father – or just plain, wonderful DAD.

-Sister Jean Moylan, CSJ

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Today's Man of Hope

I have found the last couple of weeks to be serendipitous because I have been reading Pope Francis's new autobiography at the same time as he is hospitalized in Rome. Titled Hope, and released in early 2025, Pope Francis’ writing outlines the trajectory of his life from his birth in Italy in 1936 to the present.  Due to war and hardship in Italy, the Bergoglio family and children migrated to Buenos Aires in Argentina.  This thread of what today looks like almost global migration runs through the pope’s recollections from start to finish.  He shares many anecdotes of constant war time experiences throughout his life.  Besides his life stories, there are his many recollections of Fr. Bergoglio as Jesuit priest, bishop, cardinal and finally as his installation as Bishop of Rome and pope twelve years ago.

Looking back, Pope Francis comments that despite war and turmoil, the young Georgio Mario Bergoglio enjoyed a happy childhood in a faith-filled family.  He was a good student and enjoyed music and opera and had a life-long affinity for soccer.  As he grew to manhood, Georgio felt drawn to a life of service and religious commitment.  Pope Francis takes time to reflect on his ordination as a Jesuit priest on Dec. 13, 1969, Archbishop of Buenos Aires in 1998 and installation as Bishop of Rome on March 13, 2013.  Since then, Pope Francis has visited many places worldwide and is always a harbinger of faith and hope in troubled times. He has a special place in his heart in defense of the hungry, poor, immigrants and the marginalized.  In addition, he has made 32 apostolic journeys and addressed many crucial issues.

As I turn the last page on our Holy Father’s amazing autobiography, world media is giving updates on the precarious health of this brave man. I thank God for his enormous care of souls, work for peace and hope for our world.                                    

-Sister Jean Moylan, csj

Christian Meditation for Children

Several times a year, the Religion Consultant for the London District Catholic School Board (LDCSB) sends out an invitation to educators to attend an overnight silent retreat for twelve teachers to learn the art of Christian Meditation for children at the home of the Sisters of St. Joseph in London, Ontario. In early February, twelve eager participants arrive to learn and practice the simple steps of Christian Meditation as taught by the World Community for Christian Meditation (WCCM).

Following a delicious dinner, comradery, and basic instructions, the group enters a world of silence and stillness in preparation for meditation. Cellphones and outside distractions are set aside to fully enter the retreat experience. Three Sister facilitators and their consultant companion, amid candlelight and stillness in a prayerful atmosphere, explain the age-old practice of the desert fathers and mothers.  As early as the third century, these early meditators fled the noise, chaos, and commerce of their society to live a prayer-centered life. Similarly, teachers today know the noise, distraction, anxiety, and turmoil that surrounds our youth. Educators see that learning the art of Christian Meditation could be an antidote to present chaotic ills. Placing Christ at the centre of meditation raises simple meditation as a wellness to a spiritual encounter.

One by one, our retreatants shed their coat of fatigue and distraction to embrace an aura of silence. It is time to breathe deeply and experience the world of meditation. Step by step, a quiet, reverent voice leads the group in the rudiments of Christian Meditation. She instructs: “Sit still in your chair, your back straight; feet flat on the floor; place your hands quietly on your lap; gently close your eyes; notice your breath; slowly repeat the mantra, ‘ma-ra-na-tha’”. This word, in the language Jesus spoke, means, “Come Lord Jesus.”

A chime indicates that fifteen minutes of meditation have elapsed. The meditators quietly leave and peacefully proceed to their rooms for the night’s repose.

Throughout the following day, the participants begin with meditation and learn the background of World Community for Christian Meditation which Fr. John Main established in France in 1927. It is now a global movement with a centre in Montreal. Today, there are thousands of adults and children practicing Christian Meditation throughout the world.

At retreat’s end, the teachers leave looking forward to introducing Christian Meditation to their students. They know that pausing during the workday to embrace Centering Prayer is bound to bring personal and communal peace to the classroom and hope to our shaken world. As we wave goodbye to one group of educators, another one is waiting in the wings to join us in prayer and Christian Meditation.

-Sister Jean Moylan, CSJ

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Celebrating 40 Years of Ark Aid's Dedicated Service to our Community

As November faded into December, a special gala evening of fun and fundraising was held at the Marconi Club on November 29th to mark the 40th anniversary of Ark Aid. As one of London, Ontario’s landmark shelters, Ark Aid serves as a crucial facility at 696 Dundas Street where people in need will receive a warm welcome, good food, and overnight accommodation in safe surroundings.

Honoring Ark Aid’s 40 years of compassionate service, party goers in festive dress were welcomed to the venue with singing and Christmas music. Red poinsettia dressed each white-clothed table in the cavernous dining room. Hundreds of volunteers, staff and supporters mingled and shared stories of the part they played in keeping Ark Aid the thriving outreach that it is for people in need.

In addition to sparkling drinks and a delicious dinner, several musical groups entertained the crowd.  Sarah Campbell, executive director of Ark Aid, presented a detailed account of what has been accomplished during the past year as well as Ark Aid’s hope for the future. It is interesting to note that the London Free Press, in a recent article, reported on Ark Aid’s request to extend funding for winter beds.  After some back-and-forth consultation and public outcry, the funding was granted.

Ark Aid Street Mission with its dedicated staff and volunteers are committed to recognizing the physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual needs of each person they encounter.  Caring staff assist clients to move forward in life by helping them to make connections with other agencies.

As cold winds whip around our city streets and snow announces that winter is here, we are grateful to Ark Aid and the warm welcoming refuge they have been for 40 years!

-Sister Jean Moylan, CSJ

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A New Canadian Saint for All Saints Day

Have you heard that on Oct. 20th, 2024, another Canadian was declared a saint? She is Mother Marie-Léonie Paradis from Quebec and is among the 14 new saints the Vatican recently canonized. Marie-Léonie was born in 1840 in L’ Acadia, a small town across the river from Saint John-sur-Richelieu. Throughout her life, she developed a deep spirituality, performed a mountain of good works, and exuded interior peace of heart. St. Paradis felt called to establish the order of the Little Sisters of the Holy Family with the intention of supporting the material needs of priests. In 1895, the motherhouse was transferred to Sherbrooke, Quebec, where their work continues to the present time.

Recently, in a homily to our Sisters, Bishop Greco referred to the virtues of saints. While he was in Rome with Bishop Sherlock they visited their friend Cardinal Shoka, who had been Archbishop of Detroit and now was living in Rome and working at the Dicastery for the Cause of Canonization of Saints. From his work studying the lives of saints, he realized that all of those who were deemed saints, regardless of their other virtues and good works, every one of them in their lives possessed interior peace of heart. In that moment, it was clear to me that the bedrock of good works itself does not lead to people becoming saintly. Indeed, the interior peace of heart for which we strive all our lives, saints have achieved.

Blessed Mother Marie-Léonie Paradis is the third Canadian-born saint. Sister Marguerite d’Youville was canonized by Pope John Paul II on Dec. 9, 1990, and St. Brother André Bessette was canonized by Pope Benedict XVI on October 17, 2010. All three are Quebecers. In addition, Mother Marie-Rose Durocher of Montreal was declared Blessed by Pope John Paul II on May 23. 1982. We hope the day of her canonization is soon.

On November 1st let us hail the many people we call saints and emulate their lives of deep faith and feats of valor throughout many centuries. We can pray and strive to develop their interior peace of heart, a value so needed in our desperate world today.

-Sister Jean Moylan, csj

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