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Women at the Heart of Change

For the next two years Development and Peace’s Share Lent theme is “Women at the Heart of Change.” It may seem very ironic that the Roman Catholic Bishops through Development and Peace are championing a woman’s right to belong, to take part and to be active in the society to which she finds herself. We have many stories of women being at the forefront of change in the developing world. There are many reasons for this but one of the most important ones is the desire for women to help their communities grow in peace and prosperity.

Many countries are at or recovering from war and horrific violence, much of it aimed at the killing of men and boys of communities but also at the women and girls through rape and enslavement. When women and girls are finally set free, their fathers, husbands, brothers, uncles and parents are often dead. That means they must fend for themselves. How they will survive is often up to them and how they will react, hope and move forward into the future with their children is what Development and Peace is trying to help them accomplish.

Mary and Martha are in this situation in today’s gospel. Lazarus has died.  This puts Mary and Martha in a terrible predicament. Not only has their brother died but they also are now considered outsiders of society. They have no male protector. This means they will most probably lose their home, be made to travel away from their friends, be considered outcasts in their community because their protector has died. Martha’s words to Jesus “Lord, if you had been here my brother would not have died. But even now I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.”

It is not just out of love of her brother that she asks Jesus to bring her brother back, she is also understanding that his loss will directly impact her and her sisters’ lives, in ways that will be really hard to take. Jesus says to her: “Your brother will rise again.” And Martha speaks from the heart when she says “I know that he will rise again at the resurrection on the last day.”

Jesus gives her hope by saying:  “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, even though they die will live. And everyone who lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this? Martha’s response is our example and call—no matter the tragedy, loss or difficulties going on in our lives do we believe in God? Martha says, “Yes Lord I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, the one coming into the world.” Martha, despite her sorrow and fear of the future, still believes in Jesus. Her sister Mary, also believes and her comment to Jesus is, “Lord, if you had been here my brother would not have died” and her weeping causes Jesus to weep too. Weep for their loss, for their fear and for his own loss of a friend.

Martha is the pragmatic one, Lord, she says, he has been dead for four days and there is already a smell. But Jesus’s comment to her and Mary and the crowd is, “Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God.” Move the stone. His call to Lazarus to “come out” and his instruction to the villagers gathered with his sisters “unbind him and let him go” remind us of God’s goodness to us. Of God’s willingness to respond in mercy to all of our needs.

What encourages me as a woman in the Catholic Church is the very last line of this Gospel. “Many of the Jews who came with Mary and had seen what Jesus did, believed in him.”

Mary and Martha in this story are catalysts for others to believe in God. It was their faith in Jesus and their hope in him despite the four days of death that caused them to say “If you were here this would not have happened.”  Their plea for their brother and themselves encouraged the crowd to come to know who Jesus was and to believe in him when Mary and Martha’s trust in him was proven.

Often times we feel there is not this concrete example of resurrection for us and for others in our daily struggles. When have we seen God call out and someone rise from the dead?  But then our own Catholic Church is a living example of resurrection. The Pope is now dialoguing about the need for women deacons. Our church is allowing girl altar servers, women in many other ministries often thought of as men only, including myself preaching here today. Women are at the forefront of working through organizations like the Catholic Women’s League on issues of life, ethics, safety and justice. While not perfect, our church is constantly being resurrected in new and fascinating ways. Some of us may feel it is not fast enough but then we again can look at this gospel story. Jesus was told three days before Lazarus died that he was ill. Yet he tells his disciples we will finish what we have to do here and then we will go, this will allow God to show his glory. When they finally leave he tells them Lazarus is sleeping because he does know that his friend is probably dead because of the delay. But Jesus keeps repeating God has a plan for this too.  Something good will come of this. We have to understand that God’s time is not our time and that this is the part of the mystery of God which requires belief despite all odds.

In the Global South, women, out of necessity a lot of the time, are striving to provide a future for themselves, their children and families. It is up to us to help them become like Lazarus, unbound and free to achieve what they need, to help themselves and their communities grow in peace, justice and love.

Please be generous as you put your Share Lent envelope in the collection basket this week. Help Development and Peace, help the people of the world, stand together and be free again.

Ruthann Fisher, Pastoral Associate
St. Francis of Assisi church and
CSJ Associate, Kitchener area, with Sr. Lucy Godfrey’s group

 

 

 

 

A Special Christmas Gift

Every Christmas I had fallen into the same old pattern of stress: decorating, present buying, long lines, overspending, too much eating, etc, etc. Last year was different because I missed all that. I was ill with cancer and a regiment of aggressive treatment didn't allow for the traditional frenzy. I was left with myself and my prayers. My beautiful family took over for me, and I watched as the stress overtook them and the joy of the season passed us by. "Christmas day" for us happened a few days after the Saviour's birth when I was well enough to sit at our dining table. That day, everyone was somber watching me trying to bring a festive mood into our hearts, then something amazing happened. My little one-year-old grandson, who was from out of town, had just come bursting through the front door with such a look of joy and excitement that our home became a big bubble of happiness. I prayed that night and thanked God for this. Last year, a child's joy was mine and my family's Christmas gift.

This year that I am well, I am still decorating, present buying, overspending, etc. etc. but with a much different attitude. I am putting that little grandson's joy to the forefront and actually feeling what he felt. I pray for that feeling every night, and He gives it to me! I contemplated how Jesus must have felt as a little child, and realized that He was a little boy like any other who squealed with laughter and played with abandon. I created my drawing with that joy in mind. I am so blessed to be given that feeling at Christmas and I pray that everyone in the world feels it too. 

Thank you, Sisters, for using my illustration. I hope that the joy I feel shines through my work. 

Merry Christmas!
Guest Blogger, Artist
Eleni Girgenti, Windsor, Ontario

Caption under artwork reads: Better than gold, frankincense and myrrh! Happy Birthday, Jesus!

 

 


 

 

Maybe Christmas doesn’t come from a store, maybe Christmas perhaps means a little bit more?

Maybe Christmas doesn’t come from a store, maybe Christmas perhaps means a little bit more? Dr. Seuss “The Grinch that Stole Christmas” That little bit more is a lot more that the warm and fuzzy occasion the residents of Whoville celebrate in this classic Christmas tale.

Christmas celebrates God irrevocably joining the human race. As St. John’s prologue puts it “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us” (John 1:14), and different translations of this passage help us to peel back some of the shattering truth of this central mystery of our faith. “The Word became a human being and, full of grace and truth lived among us.”

(Good News Bible) Eugene Peterson’s translation “The Message” puts it this way: “The Word became flesh and moved into the neighbourhood”. The original Greek is more vivid with the Word “pitching his tent among us”. This reminds us of the presence of God dwelling with the Israelites in the Tent of Meeting in the desert. This God willed to embrace the fleshiness of our humanity, to become one with us in all things except sin (Heb. 4:15). Jesus is God’s supreme self-communication to us and He takes on flesh. Flesh, all that is transitory, mortal and imperfect and, at first glance incompatible with God (Jerome Biblical Commentary) was what God embraced and has never unembraced! Do we really believe this?

Remember Moses at the burning bush being told to take off his shoes because he was standing on holy ground? Since God came among us and walked on this ground, ate and slept upon it, all ground is holy.

All the colored lights, decorations, Christmas trees and carols, presents, special food, even Santa, Charlie Brown and his tree, Scrooge and Tiny Tim and, yes, even the Grinch who tried to steal Christmas are all part of what might help us, who are flesh and blood, body as well as spirit, rejoice in the mystery of the incarnation. Yes, there is a lot about Christmas that is just commercialism and consumerism but there is also Emmanuel - God-with-us, reminding us that we are loved, that God has come to us in all the vulnerability of a baby, that God has not given up on our world. Our hopes are grounded in this miracle.

By Sr.Trina Bottos, Sister of St. Joseph of Sault Ste. Marie

Originally published as President’s Message in the Newsletter of the Federation of the Sisters of Joseph of Canada. Used with Permission.


Being Hoped-Filled

It is a challenge to be hopeful these days! We seem to be surrounded by stories of tragedy, violence, ecological devastation, poverty and pessimism, to name just a few. At the same time, there is love and birth and joy around us as well.

Once again, as it was for Charles Dickens in nineteenth century England, “It is the best of times, and it is the worst of times.” The main thing about our time is simply that it is OUR time, our moment of grace, our now, right where we are; and so it is our time to be hope-filled.

Hope is a gift of the Holy Spirit of God, and it lies deep within us, waiting to be activated. In spite of popular misconceptions, hope has little to do with happy outcomes, the absence of problems, the coming of better times, even the achievement of peace and justice in the world. Christian hope is about knowing that we are one with the Holy One, and therefore with all others of creation too.

As I say this, I’m reminded of a little poem by Wendell Berry:

The incarnate Word is with us,

Is still speaking, is present

Always, yet leaves no sign

But everything that is.

Reprinted with permission courtesy of Dolores Hall
Spiritual Director at Providence Spirituality Centre www.spiritualitycentre.ca

 

The Gratitude Factor. Do you have an Attitude of Gratitude?

During recent studies I (Sr. Sabina Muange) was co-leading a group therapy when my co-leader asked the group members to name one thing they were grateful for. Not surprisingly, this proved to be a challenge for them. To come up with just one thing they were grateful for, stumped them. However, when she reversed the question and asked the group about the challenges with which they struggle in life, within seconds, everyone could name several challenges.

My curiosity was piqued. It prompted me to do a bit of research about the impact of gratitude. I wanted to know how incorporating gratitude intervention can increase positive thinking, as well as improve the lives of clients who suffer from depression. I familiarized myself with a variety of studies all of which show how practicing gratitude can improve the wellness of clients. One of the researchers describes gratitude as an experience that includes a sense of thankfulness, wonder, and appreciation. When clients who suffered from depression were encouraged not only to acknowledge three good things each day for a week, but also were asked to identify its source, they began to feel happier. It did not come as a surprise to read that researchers have concluded that gratitude increases positive emotions, enhances optimism, and serves as a protective factor against stress and depression.

As we well know, stress has been slated as the number one killer, with depression close on its heels. As prevention is better than cure, all of us would do well to live our daily lives not only with a greater awareness of the many blessings we daily enjoy, but to actually name them with gratitude. Our annual celebration of Thanksgiving is a perfect opportunity to express gratitude for the many blessings of the past year.  However, can you imagine how your optimism would be enhanced by a daily gratitude ritual? The Gratitude Journal, for instance, is a widely used tool for practicing gratitude. Then there is the Blessing Jar. All the many big and little things you are grateful for can be jotted on small pieces of paper and popped into the jar. It could be a lovely Thanksgiving ritual to reflect on those blessings of the past year you tucked into your gratitude jar or jotted in your journal.   

 Guest Bloggers: Sister Magdalena Vogt, CPS
  and Sr. Sabina Muange, CPS